They are people who stimulate your mind and your soul. Some of them will "drop off" naturally as one or both of you realize you are not a good match. It is the best way to avoid settling for someone who might be nice and fine but not really the best person for you. The other con may be the label that is attached to someone who dates multiple people — they can be called players, commitment-phobes and for a lot of women, worse. If you live in fear and insecurity, you are going to meet someone exactly like you.
Until you go out and work on your inside, there's no way you're going to attract the person you want.
5 Reasons to Date Multiple Men at Once
January 4, 6: Sometimes, what we think we want or don't want may not be so easily determined in one date. The most important reason to date multiple people, in my opinion, is that it is the number one best way to really find the person you're looking for. It's all about being open and honest. Until you go out and work on your inside, there's no way you're going to attract the person you want.