But this horse manure of: Hell, she worked and paid for everything while he mooched off of her. I feel nothing for him, except regret for trusting him, regret for not picking up on his lies, and regret for giving him my time, care, and attention. There are those of us who will push away from the table and see the only way to win is not to play. Non-divorced women might hold on for a while. Just look at all you great people on this site, they are not just women. All this disappointment, uncertainty, and pain make recovering from divorce really hard and long.
I felt so happy to find a genuinely kind man and when he opened up about her and his hurt I felt I did the right thing by being there for him as a partner is supposed to do.
How to Date a Divorced Woman
I wish that I just did not care at all to date but there is a part of me that is still getting out there. When I tried to date after we broke up, it was a completely different and very ugly world. She needs to cut her losses. The difference between then and now is the attitude most men have today. The first one ripped my heart out almost beyond repair and hoom here comes number two. I was wondering the very same thing.